Welcome to my website!  Thank you for taking the time to visit!


My name is Cynthia Bailey-Rug, and I am an author.  I write from a Christian perspective, and cover topics such as Christian living, animals, self-help, overcoming narcissistic abuse, narcissism and a little fiction.  I especially enjoy writing non-fiction books designed to help Christians who are currently suffering through or have survived narcissistic abuse.  It seems only right to me to use my own painful and difficult life experiences to help others. 


My books can be seen on my Books for Sale page.

****Books for sale are available in either paper or in ebook format. (If you prefer a different ebook format than what is offered, you can convert these books easily by using Calibre software. It is completely free, and easy to use. Check it out at: http://calibre-ebook.com)****


Do not forget to check out my page for The Butterfly Project.  I created The Butterfly Project as a way to encourage survivors of narcissistic abuse as well as to help raise awareness of this terrible problem.


***What’s New***

In addition to writing books, blog posts and YouTube videos, I also have been creating some craft patterns.  We all need a break from thinking about narcissism and emotional healing, right?  If you too are yarn obsessed, check them out here and scroll down past the non-fiction section.

I also have expanded my website by including more memes and information about Narcissistic Personality Disorder, and ways to cope with narcissists.


You Can Make A Difference!

Would you like to help others?  You can! I would like to compile a book of stories of survivors of various types of abuse, and how God helped them/is currently helping them to heal from their pain.  If you have been in an abusive situation, then please, share your story with me for inclusion in this book, no matter what phase of healing you are in. Your story may change someone’s life!  It will be a free ebook on this site, available to inspire anyone who has been abused. Click here for more information.


Recent Book Releases:


“When Love Hurts: Loving A Narcissist”

Do you wonder what is wrong with your marriage?  Is your spouse extremely self centered, manipulative and just plain mean?  If so, you may be married to a narcissist.

“When Love Hurts: Loving a Narcissist” offers a Christian perspective on this difficult situation.  It also will teach you about Narcissistic Personality Disorder, identifying narcissists, ways to cope with their abusive behavior and help you decide whether to stay or leave. 

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“When A Narcissistic Parent Dies”

Losing a parent is an incredibly painful and difficult experience under the best of circumstances.  Losing a narcissistic parent is not only painful and difficult, but also filled with complicated emotions and circumstances.

“When a Narcissistic Parent Dies” is designed to help the reader find ways to cope during this challenging time, create ways to deal with people who do not understand, as well as help the reader make difficult decisions such as whether or not to visit a dying parent or attend the funeral.

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“In Sheep’s Clothing:  All About Covert Narcissists”

Do you know someone others think is very kind, caring and maybe even a bit naive, yet possesses a vicious side that only you have seen?  You may be in the presence of a covert narcissist. 

These evil people abuse in devious, sneaky ways while hiding behind a mask of kindness, martyrdom and innocence.  They are among the most dangerous people in society, yet they often go unnoticed.

“In Sheep’s Clothing: All About Covert Narcissists” will help you to learn to identify and cope with these dangerous people, as well as show you ways to heal from their abuse.

Buy this book by clicking here

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